Love Is A State of Being, Not A Feeling.

 

love is a state of being whole - From Love, Not For Love. 

Real Grounded, Real Whole and Already Totally Complete.

That is The Presence That You Already Are.

Simply witness 

All These Whole Characters

complete, serene, no rush, no fuss, joy full and happy (if they choose)

discerning responsive not rapid reactive (if they choose) 

calm and matter as fact (if they choose)

all ready all hear all space all joy, all grace (if they choose) 

Simply 

One Creature 

In Creation

birthed right 

as their birth rite. (NO choice in THAT matter...) 

That is why you have no choice To Be ONE Creature in Creation... 

That is why you have NO CHOICE TO be the Presence... (of that creature, which is already YOU) 

YOU already are that whole creature, in creation, whether you choose To Be, or not...

YOU REALLY IN THE REALITY OF CREATION HAVE NO CHOICE 

BUT TO BE THE PRESENCE

So Be

simple, content, aware and ever so clear,

So Be

One of Nature's Creatures Who Are All Great

So Be

All Ready 100% Included, 

(NOT self labelled as separate, or above, or special, or elite, or enlightened and better than any ONE)

Do NOT succumb to those insecure incomplete fractured sales people trying hard...(to keep up)

Do NOT sell your SELF out when YOU are already are whole and complete... (no try hards)

Do NOT get sucked in by those who THINK they know YOU better than you already know your SELF

Do NOT get caught up in other people's self inflicted DRAMA and CHAOS and GOSSIP and CRISIS.

why do THAT to your SELF, when you already KNOW your TRUE SELF?  

DO NOT get derailed or side tracked or lost in living, why do that to YOUR SELF? 

if you actually and already KNOW your grounded whole SELF, as your true nature, that is....

So once you know you are The Presence, (already whole AND complete)

then simply get on with loving and living a life worth living

simple see? once YOU realize for your self... 

why convolute already BEING whole with all this competing hard to win at life and healing mumbo jumbo?

why spin your wheels and get stressed and over THINK and over analysis and get lost in living? 

There is NEVER a Reason Needed to already be who you already are; whole and complete!

So do NOT get Sold or Told by Those Who Don't yet realize who they are 

and then Compete Hard To Keep Up... 

live up and keep up to someone else's expectations, 

to live on their fractured terms & conditions 

to get sucked into worry and stress and debt and excessive consumption and keeping up and competing and winning and externally imposed ways of doing life 

that someone else TELLS you to do... or reckons YOU should do... or bribes or sweet talks or craps on

(or sells YOU their amazingly convenient solution to... 

a not so tricky sales marketing advertising BS, hey what?) 

so why choose a hard life sentence... when you already are The Whole Presence? 

why even do that to your self?

why CHOOSE that dis ease? 

THAT is the sheer definition of MADNESS!

So Who already Are The Creatures of Switched On Light? 

(who need no other light... because They Already Are Lit From Within) 

Who are the creatures in creation who already KNOW their 100% flowing rock solid, unwavering, unadulterated grounded SELF? 

(that's EVERYBODY's birth rite by the way... NOT special, not elite, not separate, remember)

Who are The Beings (human and all Beings) who simply live their life? 

Whole and simple and stress free? Dogs, cats, mice, rats? Please Don't judge ONE as better... 

Whole and simple and stress free? all mammals, black, white, pink, blue? Please don't judge ONE as better...

(those beings just being them self, not searching, not trying hard to win, not running around like a headless chook trying to SAVE THE WORLD!!!!...dogs, cats, mice, rats? human mammals...) 

Those Creatures who Simply Enlighten Their Lodes? Without over thinking it... KISS please. 

Beware The Sales People Hard Selling You, You

The Speedy Hamster Wheels Anxiously Spinning Their Must Win at Life Insecure Wheels 

and Re Selling You, 

You?

and telling YOU all about their projections and perfections and opinions and beliefs and ways to win at life... (when YOU already ARE The Presence... how absolutely absurd those sellers and tellers are...) 

The Precious Rampant Ego Self Pedestals? 

Believing they are above or special or superior? 

The Try Hards? The Must Wins? The Insecurity Dripping? The Lost In Living? 

(they don't even realize, yet, they already are The Presence...they were BORN that way)

The Funny Elite Special Dear Wons? 

The My Way of The High Way?

Those with narrow lives, small life, small minds, small lived perspectives and living in vacuous boxes? 

Telling YOU that they know what's best for YOU? 

hahahhaha what you'll re sell me my own birth rite, my free own whole presence? 

Insecure Sales people do that consciously as that is their income stream, 

Insecure humans who TELL you what to do or believe their own limited bullshit is holier than thou'

"my way is best or the only way" sounds like religion and schools and institutions and business to me

they also do that unconscious abusive violent dis integrated brain washing ego projection, 

not realizing that they too are already whole... 

(keep going YOU will get there...when YOU realize there is NO path to truth for you already are the truth, you just can't see it for lost in looking) 

if projectors paused, came back to The Presence of This ONE Breath and actually slowed down internally and got out of their own way that is... thay may then realize this simple shit for them self...

how funny is that shit? 

From Love, NOT For Love 

to have YOU believing YOU need what they are selling, what they are peddling, what they are pushing, what they conveniently have for sale right now... 

new house, new car, new drugs new alcohol new stress avoidance sales technique love you long time... why the long lonely face?

The lost in living whining and dining and always running around the joint? No Presence. 

The lost in living stress heads, going above and beyond and doing the burn out so fast? No Presence. 

The lost in living insecure, needy, greedy, seedy, competing all so hard for The Win? No Presence. 

The lost in living deficit models, Not Aligned or Kind nor Open and Potent? No Presence. 

The lost in loving not whole nor complete, the convoluted, complex and contorted. No Presence.

From Love, NOT For Love 

When The Presence is already there simply by being born. Ever try to be absent from your self? 

So what's hiding The Presence? All the terms & conditions you have picked up along the way.

You have absorbed, mostly unconsciously, Other people's expectations.

You have listened and adopted to other people's beliefs and ways of doing life, 

You have rolled over to other people's mostly senseless time wasting busy for busy sake "stuff" 

their still lost in living a life not worth living and got infected by the lack of Your Own Presence.

Come back to your self, firstly, you already Are The Presence, 

no sutras, no school, no parents, no society, no sales things that are not you are needed before you

realize this for your whole self. 

Then go and Be (and do if you choose) all those other things... sutras, school, parents, society, sales...

not the other way around... 

From Love, NOT For Love 

So simply

Witness The Patterns of Wise Creatures Who Know Them Self, firstly. 

See Clearly 

The Simple Character of Creatives Who Know What They DON'T want (BS & life by passes) 

Listen More To The 

Creatures surrendered to Their Own True Nature (simple Presence, Joy, Fun, wholeness, Clarity)

and 

then wonder why what is keeping you in the dark? 

and

be in awe more and know it is OK not to know or be certain of anything

and 

see so many Curious Creatures who simply ask better questions; 

curious, exploring, diving deeper, life long learning, expanding and wondering more. 

and Realize That They Realized (Ever So Clearly) They already are The Presence. 

That Being Self Satisfied Internally (not JUST externally successful, which is also fine)

That Divine Union is Knowing Your Own True Nature (not a routine co-dependency draining another)

That Being Love is The Presence of who you are and love is NOT a feeling 

(FROM Love, NOT For Love) 

You already are the Grounded Centred Presence (aware, alive and right in this ONE moment NOW) 

You already are Holy and Wholly as The Presence (not lost in living, an anxious speedy Gonzales) 

So

To Be Firstly and Foremost

Your Own Best Friend 

To Your True

Self.

and who is your true self? 

The Whole Presence as You were born. Then you may have got lost. 

In living. 

 

You already are From Firmly Embodied Self Love not 

a Saccharine Leaky bucket drowning "love" 

a you make me feel, projected "love" 

a heavy expectation of a dis integrated ego to dis integrated ego "Love" 

From Love, NOT For Love 

Yes, 

The Many Leaves Will All Ways Fall... it is seasonal and cyclical

(and rise a gain as fresh flowing springs)

Yes

To Where All True Nature's Creatures Already Fully Belong as The Presence

One Creature, 

(You, me and Us, NOT ONE creature is excluded from creation)

Each Divine Creature, 

(all of us living creatures and mammals as creatures, firstly) 

WE All (every ONE of us) already Are One Creature in The Whole Holy Creation

and 

There Is Not An Other Thing To Do To Realize THAT ever so simple fact

To Be (or NOT To Be...?)

From Love, NOT For Love 

That Wholly Present One Whole Creature. 

And ONLY you can realize that PRESENCE 

(call "presence" what ever you like; true nature, source, God, consciousness, the Universe) 

that self realization ONLY happens when you choose.

So what are YOU choosing?

Right NOW? 

To Be or NOT to Be? 

Choose You. 

love is a state of being whole - From Love, Not For Love. 

Manifest A Flowing Morning

"Heart intelligence is having the wisdom to recognize that some people don’t feel deserving of love and therefore aren’t capable of receiving it regardless of how much you’re willing to offer it to them. This does not mean send more love it means remove yourself. Wholeness is the goal, but wholeness does not mean perfection. It means embracing brokenness as an integral part of life." 

Parker J. Palmer

Good Morning Sun Shine

"To understand oneself and the world, 

one must first find clarity through observation and self-awareness. 

This clarity is not achieved through group thought or conformity to patterns, 

but through self-knowledge and the experience of unity with others. 

Without understanding oneself, it is not possible to understand reality. 

To achieve this understanding, 

one must approach the study of the self without preconceived 

notions or judgements, and without comparing oneself to others. 

This requires examining oneself without the influence of comparison, 

judgment, or identification, and experiencing the unity of humanity. 

This process is difficult and requires intense self-awareness, 

but it is necessary for understanding and freedom."  

J Krishnamurti

Simple, Ordinary, Everywhere, Normal.

Conditioning arises in presence, not right or wrong, it just is.
There are habits that keep you from resting in your true nature,
particular patterns that keep you from resting in presence.
Notice that.

Thank you John 🙏⼶

"The person who is Self-Realised who knows God/Creation and themselves as not separate, the only Reality, Truth being already everywhere all at once and all there is, is no different from anybody else. 

That they are the changeless Reality, existing everywhere in and through everything, never subject to change, loss or alteration, and there is nothing else, because Truth is normal; ordinary, the person who knows it is also normal; ordinary.

There is nothing special or extraordinary about them. There being nothing more common or nothing more or less than the Truth existing everywhere in Creation, the only difference is, a person who is Self ‘realised’ knows it and, the other who doesn’t is yet to know. .

In the eyes of Truth/Creation the person having recognised it is utterly ordinary and normal. That no one can see ‘It’ until the Truth is pointed out, is extraordinary. 

Making the delusion perfect is our ignoring ourselves. Once it is pointed out, the person no longer able to ignore themselves, suffers no longer. No longer miserable, having no more doubts the person is free: jivamuktah.

Ignoring ourselves, ignorant of who we are, remaining unseen, as long as what is not seen, identifiable and tangible - knowable - Self - is ignored, we continue to be miserable and suffer. 

As knowledge explodes, and the intangible and infallible, ever present Self is pointed out by the teacher and recognised through Self-knowledge, Atma Gnanam, recognising your own permanence, seeing there is only one constant, the nature of all things being recognised, all misery, doubt, suffering, disappointment and confusion instantly disappears. ॐ."

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The Passed Good Ole Daze With Good Ole Buoys

happy clappers bar flies buoys clubs

bobbing neck tied tethered aim less lee

incessant seekers spruikers cellars 

rank dank good ole' mummies boys

sly grog sly shysters sly dumb club man caves

uninitiated never shown how so turn to hoes

digging prissy old buoy barns 

noisy nosy riled rooster cocks crowing 

hoeing joeing gaming mowing 

limited scope found masculine wanting

ex pensive clubs like Hagar Horrible

pebbles bam bam barney's, rubble

flint stoned fools and dyno soared

cars and fucking, grog and sucking 

burn out acrid ribbed and rubber

slam bam mam, get off kit shone

awe full needy splintered knotted 

man oh man sold old sum turps

sip sock man wins cock a doodle 

membered tickets elite choose Wons

gamble ramble bar flies scramble 

old men's wait room drink up clubbers

back slap all crap narrow life losers 

dive force dead head but still alive

lined up ex's the boots maid four walking

show her no presence un listened un loved

a wise woman once said "well flick that shit" 

control demean The Soft Cock Crows 

Like Good Ole Buoys Club

6 cans Inn and 3 joints spliff 

mummies buoys chequed out wasted 

A Gain? 

small bar buoys happy clappers of course 

a muse INK he man surely can't face

so checked out wasted happy hour gone a gain

Think Like No Thing Vapid Vacant Wasted Lands

bar flies drink up hit balls gossip routine ramble

The Uninitiated Club Caves, bunkered sandy

man he men of high school beer soaked dribbles

know eye dear really conscripted con Tained

butt the buoys and Their bar Flies happy crappers all on

projecting re Inn forcing red neck old skool back slaps

how crap? how slack? how feral fawned? 

short saggy sticks boring baggy pants?

congregate Hole 19? happy crapper clappers? 

happy crappers miss short putts sink more piss

how white small balled do ya wanna Be?

still stuck in a beefy boy bar womb 

umbilical gambling corded still tight knit

wounded chirons 

wounded whine Ohs

wounded head fucked happy clapper wankers

sniff sniff reinforced won track rumor runners 

droning sniping on and on and on 

waiting for mummies boys 

to wipe own assumptions

That Chin Chin, A Dripping Dag an

Inn Security Cold Chinked Amore

Clearly

All the things that truly matter - beauty, love, creativity, joy, inner peace - arise from beyond the mind.

"Just A Teaspoon"

The foundation of any healthy relationship is emotional intimacy. 

Meaning, you regularly show interest in and care about each other's internal world. 

Emotional intimacy is the process of intentionally connecting with your partner through actions that allow them to feel: seen, heard, and understood. In order to have emotional intimacy, we have to practice vulnerable sharing. It's through vulnerable sharing that we learn to trust our partners.

VULNERABLE SHARING LOOKS LIKE

- sharing parts of our past that make us who we are today 

- opening up when we feel insecure or anxious 

- having difficult conversations that make us uncomfortable. 

- asking for our needs to be met

QUESTIONS TO START VULNERABLE SHARING: 

1. What is your best and worst memory from childhood? 

2. What did you get from your parents that you needed, and what do you feel like you missed? 

3. How do you liked to be loved? (this will change regularly)
4. When do you feel most confident and when do you feel most insecure? 

5. What is the greatest lesson you've learned in the past year? 

6. What's something impactful that's happened to you that you've never shared with anyone else?

Emotional intimacy is also formed through intimacy actions. Intimacy actions show us that are partner considers us, listens to us, and keeps us working as a team even as life gets busy. By consistently showing up in kind and thoughtful ways for ourselves and our partner, we create an increasingly deep and sacred space for mutual freedom and evolution.

 

Consciousness is nothing special.
Consciousness simply means getting rid of the unconscious projections
which you have picked up and inherited along the way. 
It is the most ordinary, common and natural phenomenon.
Consciousness looks special because you make a goal out of it.
You may go to yoga to be all spiritual and enlightened and superior
and get your quick fix daily dopamine hit. 
You may attend church or the temple or the mosque or the shopping centre
or The Cult of Celebrity and Personality to do The Same, Same. 
Prayer, Ritual, Repetition, Servitude, Co-dependence
Binding Blind Dogma and Ultimately, Addiction.
Consciousness is none of that.
Consciousness eliminates all masks, veils, barriers and bullshit. 
(HOT TIP: you already are The Consciousness
You may just be hiding from Your Whole Self
 ignorant of your Simple True Nature still)
Seriously, or not, consciousness is
the simplest, most common and whole state to be returned to,
not attained or worked hard at or addictively pursued in
yoga or church or at the mall or at the pub. 
Stop looking for or soothing your self in addictive
patterns of the external. 

Your True Nature is the most ordinary being;
ordinary in the sense that it has no mind,
it only exists in the sheer present,
possibly hiding in plain sight, right at the tip of your nose. 
Presence, unfiltered, unadulterated, wholly here, front and centre
shown up without the unconscious family of origin baggage
right now in this moment.
That is the unadulterated whole and total consciousness,
that is who we all are at our core, 
love, bliss and happiness without any external reason, 
lit from within and no puppet on anyone's strings
a kind and aligned sovereign being,
an open and potent take no shit energy, 
a "pebble pond ripple simple" pay the GREAT shiFT forward Being, 
an energy beyond and without need of words,
an entity without cause, unmanifested and eternal
(like The Universal Internal Big Bang You Came From)
wholeness is the return to the consciousness of who you were born as
and who you have always been. 
Then you may have got side tracked, 
terms and conditions were pasted all over you,
labels stuck, dogma stuck, dis ease came and
tradition of "That's The Way We've Always Done It" stuck,
Pretending, pretentious and pretty convoluted stuck on patterns
whilst you attempted to by pass and run away from the
ignorance of not knowing your Self
and possibly drown your sorrows,
or marry your comfort meal ticket
or settle down and lose your Self
or people please and seek a nice perfection
without ever speaking your kind Truth, with depth and grounded potency, 
or you stay so far out in front of your Self by keeping busy busy busy 
that you never know how YOU are really feeling
and therefore lack presence, depth or authenticity. 
and then you get on the drugs and wish it away every night, one or two relaxants,
smoked, snorted, sipped, ingested, swallowed, skol, cheers, mindlessly numbingly watched, 
to ease the stress, the worry, the anxiety, the ignorance of not yet knowing your True Self. 
Wanting to be pacified, wanting to be soothed, wanting to be validated, 
by the bottle, by the TV, by the check out,
by the unconscious escape and unquestioning addiction, "come and save me, I'm a victim" 
by the external forces and deep chasms or voids in not knowing The Self.
When the consciousness is RIGHT there, when ever you wanna choose it as The Priority,
without all the other convoluted addiction and by pass and new cage spiritual mumbo jumbo.

You may have been subjected to unreasonable conditioning and
strict narrow standards and blind obedience whilst Being Raised.
You may have been exposed to inordinate suffering and
a competitive survivalist not enoughness in your family of origin
and parental abandonment and emotional manipulation. 
This story is all too common. It is real.
It is awful that you were "raised in" and exposed to such conditions.
This is the sub conscious energy that your central nervous system
absorbed in your formative years.
You did anything to stay attached To "Love" 
in whatever form in which it was being served.
How super intelligent are children? 
Attachment to Love over rejection and abandonment. 
A complete No brainer really. 
Children don't choose to detach from parental "love"
even if it is addictive or enmeshed or chaotic or abusive or less than ideal and unconscious
(lets hope parental love is NONE of those things)
children's wide open and somatically developing psyches
simply absorb the parental conditioning they are exposed to,
they have no choice whilst being "raised" 
these tender psyches may get stretched or eventually "torn" some years later
(or tragically a cry for help or even suicide to "just stop the mental pain", not a wish to die) 
and the result is what is termed "mental health issues" where
labels and medications are then liberally applied to "fix" The Child,
who is now an adult, who may not have any clue who they are,
heavily conditioned, torn, depressed, anxious,
checking out on drugs and alcohol and
doctor scripted medications and unconsciously lost in living.  
All because they wanted to stay attached to heavily
conditional "love" as a child.
Parents are THE future raisers, no qualifications needed, 
children should Be our greatest teachers, Once we listen. 
children should not be parental "mini me" sponges and fearful blind followers.
Children should be taught HOW to think NOT what to think.
Children should be taught how to ask better questions,
and research and find answers out themselves and question the sources
not blindly given the handouts nor told the answers or jump through meaningless hoops
to get a worthless feel good certificate from an institution that institutionalizes very well and
needs to tick economic rationalization outcome boxes of educational "success" to stay funded.

So are children exposed to a possibly unconscious group of energies called
society, school, church, media and unconscious parents?
You do your own research, you discerningly decide,
you make your own conscious mind up
I'm not here to tell you or sell you anything.
Go Figure... 
"Watching My Friend Pretending Her Heart Isn't Breaking" 
with a child torn pillar to post. 

Sea Sun’s Greetings.

Trust feeling

Believe the lushness

Feel Vibe, tribe vibes

Only ever One, 

first. 

Simply Be

Open & potent 

Spacious & gracious

Kind & aligned. 

The Presence

Shared silence 

No Thing lacking 

Connected as Kindness. 

Be The Full wholeness

Each Wholly Moment 

Discernment, discretion

Do not date draining, 

unconscious. 

Know who you are

(Joy ~ Peace ~ Love) 

Know what you don’t want

(Drama ~ chaos ~ dis ease) 

Know what you deserve

(Kindness ~ integrity ~ fun) 

AND

DO NOT settle for less. 

Liberation, Moksha, 

Full freedom To Be Whole & Holy 

Full commitment To One Only 

Gracious, Grounded, most Humble Human

No try, no seek, no path

with an intuitive growing.

With wise n wicked mischief

Mystery, Magic, Intuitive flowing 

an unadulterated true nature 

Intuitive naturally, she wildly cyclonic.

 

Seasonal, cyclic, resting and rising, 

life pulsing heart throbbing 

Sensual serious silly sublime 

All as all the Intelligences, 

No reasons ever needed

Never ever over explain 

Simply lead by following. 

Gods design, 

ratio & ration 

Two eyes 

two ears 

one mouth 

See more clearly & 

see more simply 

Listen more acutely AND 

lead by following 

Then The 

Piece de resistance 

STFU 

if it does not improve 

On Silence.

So Choose To Live life kindly;

 

unapologetically

Connection

Kindness 

Sharing

Caring,

Gratitude for each 

Festive season. 

Frolic fun, 

with more simple freedoms 

family friends, 

add more venture 

Why so special Siri ass? 

Unless it is...

Smile like a monk key 

with a new banana, 

It keeps small minded gossips 

assuming and guessing... 

Surrender To Self

Surrender To Each Moment 

Give it all up and realise... 

for your True Self

“no one (really) 

if they are wholly honest 

has got any clue 

what is going to happen 

In this One minute moment of 

Presence.

 

Which is 

The only place and space 

Anything real 

ever happens." 

So avoid checked out lush losers 

Who can’t sustain reality

with No Presence.

Avoid the drug addled 

Those who ingest the escape 

with facade and fake two faces.

Avoid The Gold Diggers who

seek saviors and escape routes

Over The Mountains,

Those Who By Pass The Moment 

of Momentous Moments,

making love to the next bottom

of The Dry Winey Whine Bottle.

Avoid the prematurely 

Ascended;

The Special 

Self annointed High Risers

Exclusive Members only

Pretty People Pedestal Ones

who freely ride the next transactional

perfect prancing pony 

express route...

(Where TF are you going anyway in such a hurry? 

Off to transcendent Lala land with all the other self medicated prison escapee lush losers?) 

So simply remain 

centred and grounded

Simply Be 

whole not perfect 

Simply Be 

from Love, Not for love 

Simple Be 

tender & sincere, Direct & Kind. 

Then IF the fear filled 

dis integrated ego reappears, 

sipping and sloshing and pretending pretentious, 

Ask your True Self (if NOW known...) 

“How old is silence?” 

(ie who am I?...)

Feel any answer that may bubble up 

fully and intensely 

But hold it ever so lightly. 

Rest, reflect, restore, rise AND 

REPEAT. 

Presence, Whole NOT Perfect. 

Pretty simple? Hey what? 

You can’t manifest the life you truly want without discerningly choosing aligned energy.
This Is True Nature. This Is Nature's Law. This Is Truth. 
YOU already are The Truth...
so get out of your own way and simply surrender to Your Own Whole Magnificence.