This is not a matter of easing into it.
You either drop all that you are not. Or attach.
You either Be or NOT Be.
You are either whole or fractured.
You are either totally true to nature or leaky.
You are either attached to a fractured, leaky project or connected to a whole true natured partner.
You either connect 100% with your own True Nature or remain a try hard, a try hard attached to external labels and attached expectations and attached conditioning. Attached to a far from whole, dis integrated, fractured, leaky, projecting, insecure ego.
Like attracts like.
Whole, peace full, relaxed, aware, not so serious, attracts The Same.
Listen and Silent. Same Same. But different.
Whenever you are ready get out of your own weigh and to surrender and receive, (your Own True Nature that is...)
Whenever you've had an absolute gutful of crisis to crisis, loopy loop chaos and drama on repeat,
Whenever you realise the simplicity of embodying your own TRUE NATURE, by making the decision to say fuck it, fuck all that I am NOT, there is No need for external permission. Look within. You can't be taught this shit. Be Response able. Be accountable. Grow up and grow a pair. Stop being an insecure, noisy, nosy, need to know, wah wah over sharing, crisis to crisis leaky eunich. Stop minding every one else's busyness except your own... Let That Shit Go. Now.
Instead. Be Your Own True Nature.
Be That.
There is No neediness attached at all.
There are no labels or split minds attached at all.
There is no thing to realise.
No need for convolutions.
No need for addictions.
No need for attachments.
No need for spiritual woo woo, a bullshit bypass from the "ascended, needy, look at me" hard selling, celebrity goo roo.
No need for escapism, adolescent honest stoner high as a kite addicted attached try hard BS.
No need for BS healing or wheeling and dealing.
No need for tarot or divination or getting on the piss to check out of reality and hide behind inebriated BS masks to escape the pain of the false fake snake you.
Just simply say fuck it and realise.
Without ANY external crutches or aids or BS small attached stories.
Who are you?
Without ANY of those external "rituals" or "attachments" or "escapist" short cut temporary life by passes?
Be brave enough to suck at something new.
Ditch the asshole artifices.
Drop the doofus dregs.
Discard the hangers on and stuck life anchors sucking you into whine and whinge and complain and blame all those "others" over there... to prop up an insecure, dis integrated fear full little lost wounded inner child ego...
Instead, grow up and grow a pair of real intrinsic kahunas. Be satisfied with enough is enough, content, grateful, ambitious grower of being a genuine life long learner. Tend to your own garden first. Remove The Weeds. Remove the pain, killers. Remove the ditzy doozy lost in living crisis to crisis drama fear full worriers.
Say Fuck It.
To that stuck stale attached shit.
See ya later aligator!
NOT in a while crocodile...
Instead.
Realise Who you have always been.
From LOVE not for love.
Not needy and attached and like an energy vampire sucking other's dry. Using others, transactional "relation ships" that are leaky and holed and sinking... convenience, comfort, avoiding loneliness, fuck buddy users, bed warmers, split mind prokectors, finger pointing drunks and still ever so wounded far from home inner children... Say FUCK it to all that shit. Let It Go.
Be without agenda,
Be kind and supportive and tender and adoring and joyous and why so serious...
Be Presence (not artifical stoners or drunks)
Be Honesty (not insipid people pleasing)
Be Authentic (not attached to mind fractures)
Be kind. Be Kind. Be KIND.
Meet all with compassion.
Including yo bad ass SELF.
It is all OK all accepted NOT agreed to.
It is ALL included in One universe.
(if there really is only one universe...???)
Hold space & listen, even to the noisy, insecure wah wah fractured egos with so much bottled up insecure inner child gunk still to release.
Let them release "The Stuck Junk" IF you can hold it and NOT absorb it.
Hear Them Out.
Listen. Silent. same same.
NO COMMENT NO HEALING NO ADVICE
(unless they ask directly for a differentPOV)
Those carrying sticky junk MAY need the space to be heard more than most. And they may not even realise... until they start sharing aka "talking" vulnerably, being raw and real, surrender to what they are really feeling, if they can in fact feel FULLY and are not numbed out spaced out, wasted out and BY PASSING REALITY via check out drugs/alcohol/self medications.
That's MAY be why minds got attached and fractured and missing in action in the FIRST place. Lost in Living, spaced out, so far out in FRONT of their REAL self they have got no idea what they are really feeling... slow down internally and let grace find you FFS. Get OFF the bandwagon of By Pass, stop spinning yo wheels in acrid smelly useless burn outs, slow TF down and stop attaching to thinking and connect and embody somatically instead.
Split or busy or attached minds now, were often not heard as children, they were not accepted or supported or seen by their care givers as sovereign souls. They MAY have been also heavily controlled and conditioned and told who to be by equally wounded, gunked up mind attached parents who (unconsciously of course!) imitated and re created "mini me's" because they "knew not what they do".
The lost in living UNCONSCIOUS parents who attach to projects as 2 sinking ships and between them (innocently) fuck up another generation of mind split children...
The Inter Generational Wounding Pattern Continues ad infinitum until one or both parents makes a conscious choice to go within and stop the burn outs, stop the passing on to kiddies, stop the intergenerational wounding.
Those parents, of course doing their best, who are still unconsciously tightly tethered together, tied up at a rusty life less unconscious comfort dock or by now HAVE separated as two holed and leaky DIS INTEGRATED egos, still two sinking ships now... possibly still mini meing the kiddies into a straight jacket mind split attachment. Especially IF the parents have widely divergent core values to start with...
Many Parents say "enough is enough and this passing on wounds or trauma or other unconscious conditioning shit stops right here with Me! Do. The. Inner. Work. Slow. Down. Listen. Silence. Compassion. Support. Mutual SELF care and minimise the Wasted Check Outs...
Heal those insecure mind attached fractured patterns.
Awareness.
Of patterns.
Maybe still just lost in living someone else's BS life...
More Awareness.
More LIGHT hearted consideration and listening.
Less Knee Jerk REACTIVITY, harsh, blunt, crisis, chaos, drama, Limited Inner Space or Grace or Tender Loving Kindness to even start to grow up, go within and really see your own Patterns.
Clearly. Concisely. Simply and always with a gentle NON blaming, NON enabling, NON by pass, COMPASSION
Maybe YOU get off on remaining attached to a victim story of mind fractures and attached BS beliefs...
and you are gunna force THAT down anyone's throat who comes within earshot...
You'll tell 'em good n proper won't cha...
You'll show 'em who's in control and who's BOSS! (insecure adult assholes and wounded inner children are still hiding out in That Bully Projecting, People Pleasing Perfectionism, Insipid Tepid, Mind Split, Might is Right Attached Gaslit Scene...)
FFS get over the tell sell yell BS and settle those petals... surrender to YOUR own True Nature, relax, nothing is under con troll and drop all the wah wah Try Hard attached BS.
Instead smile like a monkey with a new banana, it keeps the assholes guessing (or assuming or making shit stories up to attach to their fractured assumptions of needing desperately to know every one else's busyness...)
Simply observe The Patterns.
Simply Pay Better attention.
Simply listen and see TWICE as much as you speak (God's Ratio, get on it noisy nosy mind attached fractured wah wah's)
Maybe some innocent PP's leaking, just trying hard to be "good" and people please and perfect procrastination, enuff P to PPPP anyone OFF! Those earnest, mostly innocently well meaning "empaths", souls to heal/advise/tell/project/assume and somehow SAVE others from a place of ficticious lack that NEVER existed and then sing kumbya, roll over and play dead set besties like a "good" little societal nice tame self ignorant puppy...
Instead, Simply realise gratitude of being perfectly imperfect as Your Now Realised Own True Nature. That honest energy of "I don't know" feels waaaay better than nosiy parental enabling or harsh cutting blunt mind attachments or co dependent insipid entitlement. "All just walking each other home", as Ram Man Das shared eons ago...
Simply connect (NOT attach) and commit to this way of a surrendered, vulnerable life.
It is more than OK NOT to know or have it all figured out or planned or ticked boxes or tightly tethering the next gen of mind split, mind attached, fear full followers, blindly obedient compliant "Mini me's".
Stop. That. Inner. Con Troll. War. Now.
Be.
To Be or NOT to Be?
Simple. Simpler, Simplest.
Mischief and Joy and laughter and fun of NOT taking yo bad ass TRUE whole SElf so god damned seriously. Lighten UP FFS. That's what REAL "enlightenment" means to me. Get outa your own stuck ways and feel The Limit Less Joy of realising, There is NOTHING to realise.
No attached healing.
No attached mind fractures.
No attached labels.
No attached over THINKING.
No sad sack pity potty attached VICTIM "poor bugger me" or enabled by control freak parents or enmeshed by compliant obedient my way or the highway parents (or else!) no conditioning, straight jacket mind attached style by unconscious parents.
Let. It. All. Go. Simple NOT easy. Until It Is.
Let go of all that you are not.
Let go of who the world (or mummy and daddy and society and media and "success" and school and church and dogma and tradition and attached external labels) told you to be.
Let. It. All. Go.
Repeat.
Realise who YOU really are without all The Attached "Terms & Conditions" Baggage.
See what remains.
Flow. Fresh.
Kind & Aligned.
Not attached.
Not split.
Not labelled.
Not stuck.
Not by passing.
Not woo woo ascended off with the pixies.
Not checked out on an escaping medicated Self.
Not attached to gunk, junk or funk.
Until YOU do, cos we all WILL as we let go deeper and deeper as a sweet tender subtle and nascently nuanced and responsibly responsive as The Whole KIND Mofo you NOW are, and if anyone messes with yo kind ass energy, smile gently and realise THAT IS THEIR SHIT TO OWN and work through, move on if it happens TOO often. Don't try and fix or heal or argue or debate or whine and whinge and complain and moan and get sucked into a bottem less vortex of dribble dribble perfect perfectionism and people pleasing and inspid noisy insecure try hardness... all official medical terms ONE may be aquainted with, or not.
So smile gently.
Deep pause in each breath.
Pull up yo Big Girl's/Boy's/he/her/they Genderless Panties AND
Let Go.
Then.
Repeat.
Freshen. UP.
Connect.
Moment to moment.
Flow, Be The Glow as The Flow. Not in The No!
Why so serious... unless it is...
smile gently, laugh frikkin' loudly
take up your space,
if someone gets offended by your authentic kindness in Sharing an Inconvenient Truth, they probably needed To Be... how offensive...
Repeat your daily doses without attachment or addiction.
Repeat your conscious intentional breathing, especially The Pause, as you realise, there is NOTHING to realise once you've let go of all that you are NOT.
Be 100% kindly YOU.
Reflect, rest, restore, re charge rise, repeat.
Just Like The Sun and Moon and Stars and Seasons and twice daily tides, a gentle ebb and flow of forward momentum, all Truly True Nature, without having to DO a god damned thing, JUST LIKE YOU!
You spunky monkey of hunky hunky burning LOVE! without the junk attachments, that is...
Get to It Rock Stars!
You have GOT this.
Full of yo SELF first, what else do you wanna Be full of...? media crap, society crap, TV celebrity crap, self help book seller crap, external certidied experts crap, partner crap, mummy/daddy/sibling crap, assorted other attached crap; gossip, assumption, insecurity, people pleasing, projecting, over sharing, perfectionism, lost in living, procrastination, BS enabling or BS enmeshment or BS entitlement. When NONE of that has ever been YOU.
You may have just got swamped and labelled and stuck on by Other People's or "societies" Attachments...
Let It Go & live moment to moment.
Or as often as you may need reminding...
Chop wood, carry water,
carry on as we do...
lighten UP
why so siri ass? FFS...
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A calm energy is the most productive
and powerful because you’re able to detatch
and take an observers perspective,
you allow intuitive insight to flow
and you’re grounded in the energy of faith
and creativity, let go
and allow the moment to moment
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